Stopping an argument

In all relationships, we might have some arguments with our spouse, siblings or even friends. We might argue over silly things, our points and being nonstop. Even we want to end the conflict, we do not know how whenever we are in a bad temper. To stop an argument is not easy thing. There are five tips that we can follow not only to stop the fight but also possible to move our relationships ahead. Firstly, we should not yell. We, normally, would raise our voice when we are arguing in order to defend ourselves. However, when we scream at others, they are very likely to response in the same way. On the other hand, we would feel calm when we listen to a calm voice. Secondly, try to walk away from the scene. We should try to get out of the scene to let both parties to calm down and think things through for a while. Thirdly, we should know what we are arguing about. Sometimes when we are arguing, we totally miss out the point. We might forget the real point but nonsense because we want to win and to stand for ourselves. It is better to sit down and think about what make us argue in the first place. The fourth is to keep the argument simple and easy. Do not get too many people or other things involved. The problem is more resolvable if we do not keep defending our every move. The fifth is to say “I am sorry”. Even we feel that we are innocent for what we have done or have said; it is a good idea to say “I am sorry” first. It will make two parties softer for sure. Briefly, arguing is not a bad thing since we can understand more of each other. However, we should stop the argument to avoid things out of control. Happiness comes from respect and love but fighting. http://www.ehow.com/how_2126063_stop-argument.html